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Haslam Officiates at Daughter’s Wedding Ceremony

As noted by President Obama, Gov. Bill Haslam planned to perform the marriage ceremony Saturday evening at the wedding of his daughter, Annie, to David Colquitt at the governor’s residence in Nashville.
After Haslam introduced Obama at a Washington news conference Friday, the president noted:
“I also want to thank Governor Bill Haslam of Tennessee for taking the time to be here today, and the great work that he’s doing in Tennessee. I’m especially appreciative because I found that his daughter is getting married, and he is doing the ceremony tomorrow, so we’ve got to get him back on time.  ”
The wedding rehearsal dinner for the couple, who met as students at Princeton University in 2005, was Friday night at Belle Meade Country Club in Nashville. The governor made it back in time for the event.
Tennessee law allows governors to perform wedding ceremonies and several have done so. Haslam’s predecessor, former Gov. Phil Bredesen, presided over the marriage of his son, Benjamin, three years ago.

Davidson County Clerk’s Wedding ‘Gratuity’ Now Going to Charity

Davidson County Clerk John Arriola will no longer pocket a $40 “gratuity” he has been collecting from people to oversee weddings, says The Tennessean.
Arriola, anticipating that a TV station was going to broadcast a story about his office’s policy on marriage ceremonies, said Tuesday he would instead donate the money to charity. He released a statement saying it had been his practice to “accept a modest gratuity of $40” for officiating marriage ceremonies. He said he has paid taxes on those gratuities.
Arriola said he will continue to officiate weddings and accept the gratuity, which will go toward scholarships or some other charity.
Here’s an excerpt from the referenced story by WTVF’s Phil Williams:
But for the Davidson County clerk, it’s also become big business. His clerks — all Metro employees — charge $40 up front for the ceremony.
However, instead of depositing the money into Metro accounts, Arriola himself pockets the cash.
Arriola: “There is what state law refers to as a gratuity. That is a part of it.”
NC5 Investigates: “A gratuity is something I give voluntarily — a tip. This is a fee that you charge.”
Arriola: “No, I can have a gratuity.”
But several newly married couples said they were led to believe that the fee was mandatory.
“It’s $40, yes,” one bride insisted.
And we listened as another couple asked one of Arriola’s employees, “How much is the marriage part?”
“It’s $40,” the clerk said.
And another employee told our undercover reporter the same thing about Arriola’s ceremonies.
“He does them on Friday mornings from 8:30 until 11. He charges $40 cash,” she explained.